Our patriarchal societies where men are the
decision-makers and hold positions
of power and prestige, and have the power to define reality and
common situations have played a big role in rendering us as women unemployed. Of
course the business world and the labor market have been labeled a man’s world
for centuries. You as a woman you have to fight double hard to join the pack. For
as long as we still have these patriarchal mindsets, stereo types, negative cultural
norms and beliefs governing our minds in this day and age, no matter how much
education you have you will still fall prey to the vagaries of being a woman. We
need to stop playing coy as women and get real when we go out there to join the
business world. As a woman you have to be exceptional to automatically get that
job otherwise honey the man even much younger and less experienced will snatch
that job from you. It is your mandate as a woman to work hard to break through
this wall. Chisel your skills and make sure that every day your brand as a
person is re-invented and enrich your mind through reading. Be a source of innovations
and I assure you no matter your gender you will be one to die for. There are a few matriarchal societies where
women are in central decision-making positions such as community leaders, where
they play a central role in the community and in the society. In the few
matriarchal societies that exist today it has been observed that the word rape
does not exist, as women's rights are central in these societies; sexuality is
practiced freely and women are given space to express their creativity and
participate in society. We can cause our society to have a balance. If as women
we sit back and just make noise about our rights, write great philosophies about
how we need empowerment, debate, and advocate and sensitize others without
taking physical action in the right direction, the level of unemployment among
women will keep rising. We need to understand that for years men have invested
in fellow men to see that they keep the power positions in our societies. These
negative beliefs, stereo types and patriarchal mindsets have been a large sale
to the extent that even mothers were brain washed enough to believe that their
girl child was less of a person compared to their boy child. It is time now for
us as women to act by deliberately investing in fellow women. We can invest in
each other through mentorship, executive coaching, business training,
motivational talks, network sharing and offering interne ship opportunities to
other women in our thriving organizations. True as women we have natural
factors acting against us but these can be accommodated if we made up for it by
preparing ourselves as unbeatable professionals when we are given an opportunity.
It is time to sell to the world the advantages of matriarchal societies co
existing with patriarchal societies. The balance is really good for our social
economic well being and the harmony we all need to thrive well and beat
unemployment.